MJ would NEVER do that!

Many people argue that there is NO WAY MJ is alive because “he would not do that to his family”.

Specifically, there is no way he would allow his mother to grieve like that.  There is no way he would allow his kids to believe he had passed.

Well, again, I have to wonder.  Now I’m not bringing this up because I think that Mrs. J or the kids know or don’t know about a hoax.  That is irrelevant.

I am addressing the “MJ would never do that” comment.

I believe people say that because they know MJ’s heart.  They know the incredible love this man had for his family and for his close friends.

They also see his death as an incredible hurt and giving great pain and grief to them.

So why would he EVER do that?  It’s just not in his heart…. Or is it?

Before I go further, here is my disclaimer… I do not know MJ or his heart… what I am basing this on is basically the MJ of my mind… based on what I have heard about MJ through stories, articles, etc. it’s based on the figment of my imagination.  🙂

So I see MJ as not a saint by any means, but just a normal man that truly wants to please God with his life.  Like all of us, he is susceptible to sin, temptation, and has probably fallen off the “righteousness path” many, many times.  But when God speaks to you, and you choose to listen, the things you will do sometimes are beyond comprehension by those around you.  Sometimes it is downright opposite of your normal character, but that too is besides the point.

I believe if MJ’s goal for his family was eternal salvation, and that his goal for his life was to honor God, he as a humble servant would do ANYTHING to ensure this happened, EVEN IF IT MEANT INFLICTING PAIN TO THOSE HE LOVED ON THIS EARTH.

When a mother is sitting beside her child in the hospital, and procedures are being performed that can be very painful, the child will be in great pain.  If people didn’t know the full story, or the motivation behind the mother allowing her child to experience such great pain, they could easily condemn the mother.  But if the mother says, my child is dying and in order to save her we must do this very painful procedure, then now, in light of new circumstances, the mother is seen as very strong, courageous, and…. loving.

What if MJ faking his death, allowing his family, his mother and children to believe he is dead, was the ONLY way MJ could see to create a better world for his children.  What if MJ decided to sacrifice his life, in a sense, to give life not only to his family but his fans?  Would you still say this was out of character for MJ?  Or would you say this was really his greatest display of love?

This reminds me of the story of Joseph in the Bible.  Joseph, after many years, was LIVING in Egypt and his father believed he was dead.  His brothers knew he didn’t die the way their father believed he died, but they didn’t know for sure if he was alive or dead… anything else could have happened.  But Joseph believed that God had given him prophetic dreams for a reason.  Joseph believed that God had a purpose for his life.  Joseph believed that he HAD to allow things to play out according to God’s plan so that his brothers had time to repent for selling him into slavery.  Joseph, in an effort to save his brothers from God’s punishment (the same brothers that betrayed him), allowed his father to believe he was dead.  What an amazing, forgiving love that is!  And WHEN THE TIME WAS RIGHT, and Joseph saw that his brothers had a change of heart, he then revealed that he was alive.

Now I draw this comparison because it shows that sometimes we may have to do things that appear heartless or out of character, but if it is coming from a place of love, then that’s the right thing to do.

I pray that whatever is happening in hoaxville right now, and whatever very difficult decisions MJ is making and must continue to make, FOR LOVE, that he will have the courage, determination and perseverance to do what is right.

And MJ, I hope you know that despite our deep want for you to come back, despite bickering between the “believers” and the “non-believers”, despite our tears, despite our doubts and frustrations, many of us support you in this adventure and are putting our faith in God, knowing that if you are following Him, then all will work together for you and your family… and all of us!

I love you MJFam…. I love the ones that will praise my expressions here, and I love the ones that will ridicule me.  I love the trolls that will try to shake me, and I love the friends here that will uphold me.  I thank God for each and every one of you.

God bless you.


~ by lilwendy on March 30, 2011.

18 Responses to “MJ would NEVER do that!”

  1. ❤ it's all for LoVe and all is right in it's way – we don't have to understand all what's going on .. KEEP THE FAITH with L.O.V.E.

  2. Excuse the typos, I was on my phone….lol

  3. Thank you got your well written words. I believe that his family knew of his plans, frankly, I font see how he could have pulled this off without them. I have always loved Michael for the musician he is, and love him even more for the sacrifice he has made yet again for the betterment of mankind. Michael had always Braden the go to man when ever there is something dealing with helping the world. That’s just the kind of guy he is, and I’ll
    always love, support, and appreciate him for
    everything he had done for all of us.

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  5. I have the same belief like you lilwendy. I agree to everything you had said. Although I also don’t know Michael personally and just basing the things I know about him on the news, articles I had read and heard. I believe that Michael have an immense reason for everything most especially on the hoax. I also believe that he won’t forget the things he had learned from the Bible. Although I also want to see him again, what I want most is his safety, his happiness, for him to have a life in peace or to live the kind of life he ever wanted.

  6. This was very nicely stated and I agree with you. Keep The Faith. I beLIEve that MJ is alive and has an important purpose for this adventure we are all sharing. I have learned so much about Michael The Man, over these past 21 months. Thank you for your thoughts. God Bless You. It’s all for L.O.V.E. gg

  7. If it hadn’t been for Michaels dissapirance I wouldn’t know what I know now and I thank him everyday If we raise our voices as ONE WE CAN MAKE A DIFFERANCE !!!!!

  8. You know I kinda get what you’re saying, you do most certainly have quite a valid point 🙂

    I do think though that his family and children know.

    Much L.O.V.E to all MJ fam 🙂 xx

  9. I’m with you Wendy. I love everyone unconditionally. I may not like much of what I hear, as per bickering, know-it-allism and I even see competition over MJ, but I continue to see and feel the love.

    There would be a lot less bickering over Michael if more people would research & seek facts. And I don’t mean so much as per a “hoax’, I mean about the bio of his life prior to this saga. I.e.- for people to boycott Sony over Tommy Mottolo, from years ago is absurd. MJ has much more of a history with Sony since then.

    I happen to think that his Mom, Prince, Paris & Blanket know.
    I don’t think Michael would even consider doing this without telling them of all people. Mind you he did nothing “to” them. Whatever Michael does hasn’t ever been in just his OWN best interest. He did so “for” them as much as he did for himself.

    I would suggest that people have an open mind and consider more empathy for Michael. God and Michael know best as far as this is concerned and it is for us to trust this.

    The love Michael has shown for others; family and fans, is immeasurable. May we just love him back and just imagine how he would feel if he was to tune in from wherever he is; heaven or from wherever. I dare say that needless disagreements and lack of unconditional love for one-another would hurt him. It is better if we can all agree to disagree and re-establish common ground, in the name of love for him.

    thanks Wen

    • Thank you again! It really does mean alot to get feedback and hear thoughts from everyone! Love you!

    • I’m with you in the firm belief that Michael’s mother and children (possibly others, too) know of the hoax and actively help Michael, wherever he may be in hiding. I also believe that he is in constant contact with his children and maybe even found various safe places to meet them and spend time with them.

  10. Thank you Wendy….u couldn’t have said that better. God has allowed MJ to go on this adventure because he was something that needed to be done. I know it’s hard to believe….but sometimes you have to look beyond what you see and believe what is…..all things are possible….to him who believes. MJ we love you and your courage for taking the first step…we love that you care enough to do this for your family, and for your fans.

    God is with you and I pray for you daily. Love you!!

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